As you know, I write quite a number of articles about phone sex and the other day, a gentleman who had never called any of my live sex chat numbers before asked me why my particular form of sexual expertise was so popular.
You would think that this guy was either totally void of erotic impulse, or are from another planet, because he acted all surprised when I told him most of us have used the phone for sex for a long, long time. Truth is he was just acting, but that’s another topic of conversation. Men and women have been using the telephone for a number of reasons ever since Mr. Bell presented his revolutionary and as more and more people began to have easier access to a telephone, it wasn’t long before a man and woman, sometime in the past, started to flirt with each other. And thus arrived phone sex, a most exquisite form of adult entertainment where you didn’t have to be next to a person physically in order to have live 1-on-1 sex. Ah… the good old phone! The telephone was perfect for all kinds of intimate moments, because it provided callers a convenience which they never imagined they might have. Before long husbands and wives were using the telephone to keep the flame up during times when they were not with each other physically., and the more these bold individuals desired sex, the more they used the phone for getting it.
A number of years later, phone sex has become an important aspect of our day to day life, not only for those of us who might be in a relationship, but more importantly for any person for whom sex is a rare occurrence. “Why would someone want to have sex by phone with a total stranger?” Well… “Firstly if you don’t know what phonesex it is you really don’t know how this works, and furthermore, one of the most tempting aspect of speaking with somebody by telephone when it comes to sex is exactly due to their anonymous nature. You don’t have to know what the person you are talking to looks like. In your head, the girl (or man) on the other side of the telephone call can really take on the persona of just about anyone you would like, and do to you anything you wish. There are fantasies and desires which just cannot be realized in actual life, other than when you experience phone sex with an unknown person, there is certainly absolutely no limitations as to what you can talk about! Consider this for a minute. Is there any hidden desire at times you wished you’d be able to share with your wife but you can not because you happen to be too timid? What if I said my own fantasy? Might you be more confident speaking about it?” Naturally, I had been swayed.
The truth of the matter is usually that for a numerous number of regular people, (whether they are married or not), sexuality (making love) is usually straightforward and (at times) at risk of being borderline boring. (Getting bored is amongst the most popular causes of divorce among husbands and wives). As a result, people try to find alternative, ways to express their sexual drive, since they are not able to do so at home. It is common knowledge that the web serves at the main inspiration for their search for alternate sexual possibilities, which can take many forms. Fora, free or cheap sex movies… Exciting as these might be however, there’s a major difference between being a passive observer who may be mildly satisfied just watching (the definition of a peeping Tom) and somebody who desires to feel like he or she is really an active participant. This is the exact reason why phone sex is so popular. It’s the sole media that makes it possible for any person to enjoy any kink or fetish fantasy he or she sometimes have. And they can do so LIVE. Phone sex is true one on one encounter. What it lacks in terms of actual physical contacts it more than makes up for it in its ability to explore desires that would normally never be explored in the context of a “straightforward” marriage. Allow me to explain this differently. Most of us keep our most “challenging” desires private. The reason we keep these desires for ourselves is simply because we are either too timid to share them with our spouses, or perhaps fear that our wives would think negatively about us. Some women actually think their spouses are raving lunatics (if not perverts) for having some of those erotic longings to begin with. This would certainly not be the case if you called a phone sex chat line! Besides being able to “lay it all out” on the table, you’re going to be encourage to take it a step further. There is a very good reason for that: our greatest sexy organ is our brain, and our ability to be “creative” is certainly one the paths that enables people to enjoy to free themselves of prior inhibitions. The other day, I was talking to a customer who demanded phone sex for free. For some reason, he thought that I didn’t have any bills to pay, that sex alone would sustain me. Believe it or not, people do call phone sex numbers and ask to get it free. I read an excellent article about this very issue written by the Chicks With Sass about this topic and you may want to have a look at it.
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